One of the ways that I have found that I can tell if God is trying to tell me something is if certain "themes" come up repeatedly in a short period of time.
The lastest incident of a theme that has shown up repeatedly is that of needing others. In fact, tonight I saw two posts on Facebook, which is by no means scripture, but I imagine God can speak through it, just like He could speak through a burning bush and some rather interesting prophets....I mean, some of them ate BUGS! I don't think any of my friends on Facebook eat bugs.
Anyhow, first my pastor posted a link to Jars of Clay's song "Work," which asks the question, Do you know what I mean when I say, "I don't want to be alone"?
Then a friend posted the following status: